For you they, your kids still underaged, not able to hand a task perfectly. But , when that time you possible to give them task for them to handle?
Do we need to do that?
Do we need to give them a change?
As they are growing , they would facing several matters, such as built up relationship between friend, homework is a must for which teacher have to give after teaching student and pupil.
Yet, most we heard from parent once their children went to school normally they don't want to do anything. Who gonna to blame?
Children?
Aren't you telling them not to do anything. Not to touch anything at kitchen, do not access to your workplace at home. Then, you simply taught them, your children, your guidance not do it anything, indirectly.
Why you have to blame teacher as you are the one taught them not to do.
So, start with you. You need to give them a chance as they would feel you trust them. When you give something you love, or not high priority of your belonging , they, would feel confidence, they can handle any task because you given them a chance.