Our kid, especially baby need to observed every minutes as we could. It doesn't matter if you workaholic but make sure a day you stare your kid eye.
It sound a small matter, but for a baby , they want to see their own mother eyes. As from the beginning, when a mother give birth and, from that moment, baby starting saw her mother eyes. Even, if, baby seeing nurse, the first person baby seen, when nurse cleaning up baby from birth blood, but, that's one thing that until now even scientists unable to give specific answer why baby able to know their mother whenever they were staring their own mother's eyes.
Back to topic, a mother or guardians have to practice to be able to give a toy and yet playing with baby. It's only take a few minutes before and after you start your paper work or whatsoever you want to do for whole day off.
To bring their joy, everyday you need to spend with them, because, you are the one who they need most.
Everyday, day by day, when you keep bringing up their joy, good perceptions would increase by them, indirectly. But that's not all, these lucky baby might lesser to getting sick as , like doctor say, laughter is the best medicine.
If, now, you have have the worst day, please forcing yourselves to give a few minutes for them. There are reason why god give you baby or/and kids.
Baby or/ and kids would growing fast, for example, 7 Year and below , their brain would set what surrounding and how their react. If these years you give best relationship with you and tour kids, they know you better and, when they were growing up , as and adult, they woull react as same you reacted with them before.
So, start, love to your children