As in taking care of our job, we are competent to life style, include ourselves, partner, or even our children. Even though, you have others helping you in terms of part of your life, supporting with money, for your financial been maintaining time by time. but , of course, oneself still has it own problem needed to solve. Either in short terms or/and long terms.
During we prepared plan, established and keeping our plan on track but , sometimes whatever we plan it might goes out of track unexpectedly. Meanwhile , at the time your kids play and showing good behavior, calling your name as he/she like you to appraisal them, do not automatically slammed them with your bad words as you don't like to be disturb at that moment. If you telling to adult, it might convenient as grown up person able to scan you either you have happy moment or vise versa , and an adult can speak and react by such way to you either like your tension and long face or response to you what their thought. it make your kid(s) heart break and later she/he throwing stuff , showing they weren't like your attitude not forgotten of your kids,